You keep fighting the same fight. You’re sick of hearing yourself complain about the same things over and over again.
Clearly, wrestling isn’t getting you closer to free. It’s quite possible that… you have no fight left in you. And this is good because…When you have no fight left in you, you get to stop fighting. And this defeat can be a major victory.
Focus on the relief of giving up - I’m going to stop fighting with this because I just want peace. I’m going to stop grinding, because I want more ease in my life. I’m done learning my lessons through suffering, I’m going to learn more gracefully now. I know there’s a better way and I’m going to allow for that.
Focus on the benefits of no longer fighting. Less fighting, less crying, less over-eating, less exhaustion. More sleep, more space, more time, more creativity, more free expression, way more energy, more YOU… (and the list keeps going...).
Focus on your feelings. The upside of NOT feeling the way you want to is that you get really clear on how you DO want to feel. We learn through contrast.
When you stop struggling to make something go the way you’ve wanted it to, you shift the energy grid of your life.
When you’re done fighting, you’re done fighting. It’s a bittersweet relief. Focus on the sweet always!
